Couples Therapy
Dr. Pasahow works with couples to restore and strengthen relationships.
In couples therapy, we work together to understand what’s driving the disconnection — and how to repair it with compassion, clarity, and deeper emotional understanding.
Why work with Dr. Pasahow?
With a wide variety of creative techniques drawn from evidence-based research, Dr. Pasahow’s approach is effective and at the same time, fun and exciting.
Her unique approach combines cutting-edge research in neuroscience with an understanding of emotional behavior and our biological need to bond with others.
Working with Dr. Pasahow
In our collaboration you’ll participate in hands-on skills, experiential exercises and mindful techniques aimed at transforming your relationship.
Together, we’ll address fears, alleviate pressure, and cultivate enjoyable, imaginative and connected experiences.
I’m dedicated to creating a supportive space where you can deepen your intimate connections.
Common Concerns
You might be...
Arguing over the same issues with no resolution
Struggling with intimacy or mismatched sexual desire
Feeling emotionally shut down, withdrawn, or resentful
Facing infidelity, secrecy, or broken trust
Navigating transitions like parenting, illness, or loss
Unsure if the relationship can or should continue
Breaking of relationship contracts and infidelity
Struggles can leave both partners feeling misunderstood, hurt, or hopeless.
But therapy and couples counseling can create a space where new patterns can emerge.
What to Expect
In Our Work Together
PACT Therapy (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy)
Rooted in attachment theory, developmental neuroscience, and nervous system regulation
Helps couples build a secure-functioning relationship based on mutual care, fairness, and safety
Encourages open-hearted connection through real-time emotional attunement
Especially effective for high-conflict couples or those with unresolved relational trauma
Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy
Teaches each partner to recognize and regulate their own nervous system states
Uses body awareness, breathwork, and mindful presence to ground in the present
Supports more honest, attuned, and embodied communication
More Than Talk Therapy
I help individuals and couples explore past experiences with compassion and understanding, enabling them to transform and grow. This method is more experiential and profound compared to traditional talk therapies, and I’ve found it to be highly effective in helping people find lasting change, connection, and fulfillment.
What Patients Say
The greatest reward of my work is witnessing the positive changes in my patients’ lives.
We owe our progress to Dr. Pasahow.
My husband and I say, with no exaggeration, that Dr. Pasahow saved our marriage.
All testimonials are shared with permission and represent genuine experiences. Your confidentiality is my highest priority, and our sessions remain completely private and protected under therapist-patient privilege.
Curious if we're a good fit?
Reach out to schedule a free 15-minute consultation.